Let’s be serious for a moment, shall we? Unless you go to a really weird high school or are just really lucky with the ladies, getting someone’s phone number is hard. Even if you’re not in either of those two situations, asking for a girl’s digits can be nerve-wracking and awkward. However, thinking that it will never happen again is the biggest red flag there is. You will meet that special someone again and again until you finally get up the courage and ask her out. So here is how to get an interesting girl’s phone number without actually asking her for it.
How To Get Someone’s Phone Number
1. Get a phone number
First, you have to get a phone number from the girl. This is not as hard as it sounds. You can approach her in different ways: an intelligent conversation, flattery, and humor will most likely work wonders. As long as you don’t violate any of the girl’s personal space or boundaries, she will be more inclined to give you her digits. If she seems really interested in what you have to say and enjoys your company, chances are she will want to hang out with you again. But if she doesn’t seem interested in what you have to say (or if she doesn’t even bother responding), then it is safe to assume that no number exchange is needed.
2. Get her contact information
If you are lucky enough to get a phone number from her after making an interesting conversation with her and engaging in some light flirting, then all that is left is getting information about where she lives and what her phone number is. This is the point at which things can get really tricky. If she doesn’t seem to want to talk to you anymore or has become cold, then you can ask her for her phone number. But if she still seems interested in talking to you, she will be more than happy to give you her phone number.
3. Text it to yourself
Before sending the text that is supposed to ask for her number, read it out loud a couple of times and make sure that it sounds right. It should sound natural and not like a desperate request for help from an alien abductee. You are not asking her for a favor; only asking her if she would be down with hanging out again (if you made an interesting conversation with her and flirted). If this sounds good, then go ahead and send the text by pressing the “send” button on your phone. If something does not sound right about this situation, don’t send it what it says. If you find it too awkward to ask her for her number in the text, then write a paragraph or two in continuation of the below text.
4. Be persistent
If the girl doesn’t say yes to your request right away, then send her another text with the same idea about getting together soon. You could also check for a reply using her phone number. If she does not respond or she replies with something it sounds natural. If you are feeling really confident, you can even ask her to do it for you.
Make Her Feel Comfortable With You
- First off, you need to make her feel comfortable with you. This means that you should tell her about yourself. Maybe it’s something funny that happened to you, or maybe it’s something serious. Either way, talking about yourself will make a girl feel comfortable with you and she might even like the fact that she feels like she can talk to someone else about anything.
- Next, ask her a few questions about herself. It doesn’t matter what the questions are, as long as they are meaningful and interesting to her (for example: “What do you do for fun?”). Once she starts talking to you and feeling comfortable with your presence, she will be more likely to open up and share herself with you.
- Finally, when she is ready for it, ask her out on a date! You can either ask her in person or over text message (and even then there are ways around this). But be careful not to be too pushy as this will make her feel uncomfortable.
Bring Out The Confidence In Yourself
1. Convince yourself that you’re worthy of her time.
You can’t get a girl’s phone number without putting in some effort. You have to be confident and treat her as an interesting person, not just as a random girl in your class. The best way to do this is by talking to her at a party or during lunch break. The worst thing you can do is just walk up to her and ask for the number. You will look like an ass and she might think you are creepy too, which doesn’t help your case at all.
2. Ask for her number at the most random moment possible.
If you watch the movie “My Big Fat Greek Wedding,” you will know why this step is extremely important! Get her attention by asking her something completely random when she isn’t expecting it, such as: “What did you get for Christmas?” or “Do you like the movie ‘500 Days of Summer?”
3. Wait for her to make the first move.
The best way to get a girl’s phone number is by being on her mind. You have to be interested in talking to her and you have to show it. If you want a girl’s number, don’t be afraid to initiate contact with her and ask for it yourself. Don’t wait for someone else to ask you for it or expect that she will just give it out like candy from a baby!
4. Be persistent and act like it’s the most normal thing in the world.
If you do everything above correctly, then she won’t think you are too cocky or weird for asking her for her phone number. If she doesn’t give it to you right away, just keep on asking until she says yes! Don’t just stop there though! Ask her out or let her know that you want to get to know her better. This will show that you actually care about what she thinks of you and feel like making a good impression on her.
5. Don’t be a dick about it.
You have to be nice and respectful with girls if you want their number, no matter how amazing they are! You have to treat them with respect at all times; not just when they give their digits out to you! Girls don’t like guys who are rude or pushy, so don’t even think twice about giving you her number. She will probably be so surprised that you’re asking for it that she might even give it to you without hesitation! It’s OK to be a little pushy if necessary, but the most important thing is to not be creepy.
Getting a girl’s phone number can be super intimidating, especially if you aren’t sure if you’ll end up asking her out. But, if you follow these tips, it can be a lot easier to get a girl’s phone number without ever feeling uncomfortable. Remember, you might have to try a couple of times before you successfully get it. And that’s okay!